Wednesday, June 6, 2012

how it looks - only one person's opinion

 
It was an historic event. For the third time in US history, a seated governor had been subject to a recall election. For the first time, the seated governor won and remains in charge.

My advice – move on, people. There have been tears, cries of the end of democracy, death threats to the governor and general lament.  And why?
Because a group of people decided that he was evil and when trying to balance the state budget,  required a group of complainers to pay their fair share. He set up for the teachers in the state to be treated as individuals and not a group. I know that there are those that say collective bargaining is a “right” but I believe it is like any perk in the workplace.
I resent that the teachers I know who work their fingers to the bone, sacrifice family time and personal comfort to try to teach and influence the youth of Wisconsin are given no more money or benefits than the teacher who shows up, works and leaves, with no concern for the lessons learned or the lives touched.
I resent that I work for ½ what a teacher is being paid (their salaries are public record – I checked some names of people who have been most verbal) to work 12 months a year. And then am told that I don’t know what it’s like to work - and I work 5 days a week, 9+ hours a day, year round.
I resent that I pay my own insurance, watching the rate I pay increase yearly, but pay it anyway and then are told that my tax dollars are paying the insurance of people who pay nothing...and in the new system will still pay less than I do. And I am locked into the insurance my employer provides - unless I really want to pay more for the luxury of a choice.
I resent that teachers keep saying how they went to college so they deserve more money and respect. I may not have a degree, but I have gone to classes (paid for by myself) to educate myself and keep up to date in my field. I only get what my company can afford to pay. Is greed a reason to bankrupt my employer?
It would be so easy in real life to have my salary based on what someone else is earning and not on what I deserve. But on the other hand, why should they get what I make if I am working harder?
As a taxpayer, I get slightly miffed when I see the quality of education on the national charts near the bottom.  Wisconsin has been lacking in the quality of student they are releasing to the world…would more money make better teachers? It hasn’t been proven in the past. How do our teachers demand all sorts of benefits when the test scores indicate they are not doing what they are being paid to do?
I do know some incredible teachers who should get twice the going rate. I say screw the ones who hide in the teachers’ lounges except for the time they are required to be with their students.

When the educators actually prove that they are worth more money, benefits and acclaim, I am all for rewarding them accordingly. But for now, they haven’t done anything to make me support them or talk them up.
And if you are really adament and angry, put your name on the ballot - put your face and family, your reputation and values, your sensitivity and understanding out there for everyone to see.
But for the most verbal, you seem to prefer to be part of a crowd and avoid that Face to Face thing.
So to all those who are sitting at home whining about the end of democracy or plotting how to waste another billion tax dollars because you didn’t get your way…suck it up. Gather some self respect and pride and move on. 

Monday, June 4, 2012

`This is sad…
I just heard that a friend’s 17 year old nephew committed suicide. He was a young man who seemed to have no other choice…in his mind.

When I posted a note of condolence to his family, I clicked the box that let me know if other notes were posted. I have read the whole guest book and it dawned on me that this young man had friends who he saw daily and they embraced their friendship. There were people his age that hadn’t seen him for a while but remembered wonderful things about him. There are family members, church members, friends and friends of friends (like me) who wanted to comfort his family.

How much difference would it have made if he had known how much his friends loved him?  How much love was out there for his family that he could have gathered for himself?

I had a poster when I was younger that said, Life is Short – and there is not time to brighten the hearts of those traveling the dark way with us…O, be swift to love. Make haste to be kind.

It was a paraphrase of a Pablo Neruda poem. I received it 40 years ago and it still haunts me. Every time I see someone lost I wonder if he could have been saved had he known how loved he was.

Today I encourage…urge…DEMAND!!! That you find someone you love and admire and tell them so. Don’t post your memories in a guest book after their death. Post them on a billboard for the living, breathing person to see.

And you may find out how loved and admired you are, too.